Henny and Oliver hosted a gathering of the cousins at their house on Saturday, around lunchtime.  It was a perfect time to break the ice so all the cousins got to catch up, introduce and reintroduce themselves, try to figure out where we all fit in this enormous family tree, and allow the younger kids to overcome their shyness around each other.


Abby bonded immediately with Ken.  She and Ken's daughter, Katie, would eventually become best buddies by the end of the trip.


Hendri's daughter, Alyssa, and Hendra's eldest son, Jayden.


Kayleigh, the party girl!


Everyone took turns holding Henny and Oliver's newest addition to the family, Johan, who was just born in March.  Elaine's turn to hold Johan, while chatting with Cousin Eric.  Cousin Brian is chatting with my brother, Allen, in the foreground.





Above is a draft of the family tree on Bo-Gong's side of the family.  My family actually descends from Bo-Gong's brother's side.  Bo-Gong's brother would be my father's dad....I believe that's right....In the end, it doesn't really matter.  What matters is that my father grew up with Henny's dad and Elaine's mother.  In my father's eyes, those two are his closest siblings, and he is far closer to Bo-Gong than he was to his own father.


As the gathering wrapped up, Murphy finally got to come out and show off some of his tricks.  With so many little ones at the party, some were frightened of the big, rambunctious Murphy, so he was isolated until most of the party left.


That night, we dressed up to go to Great-Uncle's 100th Birthday celebration dinner.



All of us staying at the Sebel walked together to the restaurant.  We loved how pedestrian-friendly that area was!


Henny and Johan. 


Allen, David, and Hendra.


The best thing about seeing Bo-Gong and Bo-Po was the shock that they haven't changed much at all since I last saw them almost 20 years ago!!  They were both in seemingly great health.  I loved that Bo-Gong, after agonizing over which hat to wear to his birthday celebration, shows up in a baseball cap!

Unfortunately, Abby and Kayleigh had not completely overcome jet lag and both were asleep before dinner started, so we ended up having to leave the party shortly after we took a quick picture with Bo-Gong and Bo-Po and probably only half-way through the party.  We felt awful that we had to cut our participation short to the main event of the trip! 



Abby and Olivia have been best friends since they were a year old.  They met at daycare and because of their birthdays (just one week apart) the two of them have always transitioned to new classes at the same time, remaining constants in each others lives.  It's been amazing to watch these two girls grow and mature into beautiful, intelligent, sweet, caring, young ladies.  

Staff at their daycare, specifically their teachers, call them two peas in a pod.  Their likes and dislikes, mannerisms, and development seem to match identically.  There are times we get together with their family and we can't tell Abby and Olivia apart if we don't see which child is speaking because they even sound alike!

For months now, these two have been into horses.  And since this is the big Oh-Five and they have most of their friends in common, we decided to combine their parties (after getting their approvals, of course) and throw them something a little bit more special than a Chuck E. Cheese party.  

We researched local equestrian centers to find out which ones hosted birthday parties.  Olivia's mom found the Ken Caryl Ranch and, on a whim, called them up to see if they would be able to host a birthday party, despite them not advertising this service.  They did, and after touring the facilities, it was decided that this was where we would host their 5th birthday party. 


The party was on Saturday, June 23rd at 10:30 AM.  Colorado was in the midst of a heat wave.  On the day of the party, we would hit 103 degrees.  Luckily, the party was set up in shade, but an hour and a half of horseback riding in the sun meant that the 140 bottles of water and juice were completely gone by the end of the party!


The girls were visibly nervous about getting on to a full-size horse, but they comforted each other and as soon as all the kids started mounting the horses they were able to relax and every kid had a wonderful time.  Of the 20 guests, only Emory did not want to get on a horse. For the number of guests, they had 8 equestrian school horses available and 4 trainers guiding the rides.  For 1.5 hours, each child got at least 2 or 3 rides.  If the child was comfortable, the led the horses into trots and gallops, which delighted them. 


After the rides, the kids got to help with unsaddling the horses, brushing, cleaning the horseshoes, and feeding the horses.


 
From the party invitations to the personalized Happy Birthday banner, gift bags, and cupcake toppers, most things were hand-crafted to add a special touch to the occasion.  


Cupcakes were an obvious choice to serve that many kids. The birthday girls each had a colossal cupcake, topped with fondant ponies.


The party was a great success and both birthday girls had huge grins on their faces by the end.  This was certainly memorable for us parents and hopefully it will be memorable for the girls as well.


Additional photos have been uploaded to a Fotki album.





Today, Abby is 5 years old!  We visited Grandma and Grandpa in Colorado Springs and the girls had a blast hanging out.  Abby chose Red Robin for her birthday lunch where the staff sang "Happy Birthday" to her and she received a free sunday, which she shared with Kayleigh.

Back at Grandma and Grandpa's, she opened presents and we had cake.  She some great books, legos, My Little Pony train, and a special orange BABW kitty. 




Abby has really been into horses and unicorns lately, so additional presents from family included this beautiful stuffed unicorn and My Little Ponies.


From Paul and me, Abby also got a Leap Frog LeapPad and a few games.  She is so good at the games already and it's nice to have something that's more appropriate for her age and educational compared to apps on our iPads.  Kayleigh enjoys watching Abby play almost as much as Abby likes playing!

Happy Birthday to our beautiful, smart, creative, little girl.  We are so proud of you, Abby!  We look forward to a Fantastic Five year!