~A Limerick For Abby~

So much fun was had with this simple spoon
"Bedtime, no! It's way, way, too soon!"
But gone was the sun
And bath too was done
Off to bed for Abby with book, "Goodnight, Moon"

The Stride Rite pre-walker shoes gave Abigail blisters on her ankles. We returned the Stride Rites and visited the Children's Shoebox store at our local mall and asked for other options for baby kick-proof shoes.

We were once again told that Robeez and Pedipeds were the best - and of course that's what the store carried. I told the sales lady about our problem with Pedipeds was that the small was too big on Abby and the shoe would fall right off. She said, "You tried a Small? That's for sizes 6- 12 months. You might want to try an Extra Small for 0-6 month olds."

Extra small? For our 9 month old? Okaaay.... I still can't believe Abby has such tiny feet.

To my astonishment and glee (Pedipeds are so darned CUTE), they fit very well and with room to grow!!

The Children's Shoebox had about 4 styles to choose from, only two of which were available in XS. One of them happened to be a pair I had been eyeing online! So we ended up walking out the door with the Giselle - Chocolate Brown with Dots.

We have been very impressed with how soft the leather soles are and Abby really seems to like wearing them. She has not tried to take them off and despite all the rubbing she does of her ankles, they have not come off. Socks are secure.
My friend Khanequa brought her 4 year old son, Maxwell, to visit this past Saturday. Max was a little nervous about around the cats this time, even though the last time he had seen the cats he had really enjoyed being around them. He had a great time entertaining Abby and Abby definitely seemed to take a liking to K and Max.

Earlier that day, Abby had been struggling to stay awake. She refused to go down for a nap, despite obvious signs of exhaustion. She becomes very clingy to her knit blankie whenever she gets tired and she refused to part with it all morning. Ever since she started daycare, she has become attached to knit blankets, which she uses to cover her face or rub her face against as a sleep aid. We don't know how the habit developed, but so long as she has a pacifier and a knit item (it can be a sweater) against her face, she is generally a piece of cake to put down for a nap.

She was busy harassing Belle that day. Cornering her to get an opportunity to pet her favorite kitty was something Abby spent a good amount of her waking time pursuing. Lucky for Abby, Belle is stubborn to a fault and tries her best to hold her ground against all of Abby's attempts to grab her. We have been working with Abby to understand how to be gentle around the cats and she has actually learned to respond to, "Pet nicely, please."



Load-Bearing Test

All three of our cats went to the vet last weekend for regular check-ups. All three of them are doing great. Tigger has a mild heart murmur which the vets are keeping a close watch on, but his condition seems to remain stable. Belle weighed in at 19 lbs, but the vet is not concerned with her weight since she is naturally a big cat. (Actually, all of our cats appear to be above average in natural size!) Tigger weighs 15 lbs and Gizmo - our tallest and fluffiest - is just under 13 lbs.

Gizmo (age 4 years old)

Belle and Tigger (age 6 years old)
"Whatcha talkin' about?"

Last Sunday, we were trying to get a photo of Abby doing her sign for "All Done!" Just as she started eating, with camera ready, we asked her, "Abby, all done?!"

"I dunno!"

That day, we realized she definitely knew what the gesture meant, so she wasn't going to do it before she had really finished eating.

"You're REALLY confusing me!"

"Yes, NOW I'm all done!"


Our good friends Matt, Staci, and Sydney moved to Idaho 2 years ago when Matt took a billet at a field office. We're ecstatic that they will be moving back to the area next year.

Earlier this week, Matt was in town for a few days for some NR meetings and to scope out Sections he may be interested in returning to. He had a free evening, so he came home with Paul after work. We got a chance to show him around the new house and introduce him to Abby. Abby absolutely LOVED Matt. Right off the bat, she made a beeline for him when he sat down with her in the living room. The picture below is a favorite!


Matt's visit was short, but really sweet and we got to catch up a little on how the rest of the family was doing. We took Matt to Mama Wok's - one of our favorite Chinese restaurants which Matt and Staci had introduced us to.


When we dropped Matt off at the Shady Grove metro station, Abby was done for the night and was rubbing her face, trying to fall asleep, yet when Matt said "bye-bye" to her, she mustered up all her energy to smile and wave "bye-bye" to Matt.

It blows my mind that our friends left as a family of 3 (not counting the pets!) and will be returning as a family of 5! We will have to reintroduce ourselves to Sydney since she moved away when she was so little and I doubt she can remember us. Finally, we can't WAIT to meet Luke and the yet-to-be named bun in the oven. :)
Prep time: 10 min., Bake time: 55-60 min.

1 Can (20 oz) crushed pineapple, undrained
1 Can (21 oz) cherry pie filling
1 Pkg (18.25 oz) plain yellow cake mix
12 Tbsp (1.5 sticks) butter, melted
1/2 C frozen unsweetened grated coconut, thawed
1 C chopped pecans
Vanilla ice cream, for serving

Place a rack in the center of the oven and preheat oven to 350 degrees F.

Spoon the pineapple evenly over the bottom of an ungreased 13x9 inch baking pan. Cover the pineapple with the cherry pie filling. Pour the dry cake mix evenly over the fruit mixture so that it reaches all the sides of the pan. Drizzle the entire pan with the melted butter. Sprinkle coconut and pecans evenly over the top of the cake. Place the pan in the oven.

Bake until the cake is a depp brown and a toothpick inserted into the center of the cake topping comes out clean, 55-60 minutes. Remove the pan from the oven and place it on a wire rack to cool for 10 minutes.

Spoon the warm dump cake into bowls, top with a scoop of vanilla ice cream, and serve.

* Store this cake, covered in plastic wrap, for up to 1 day if using a metal pan, or for up to 1 week if using a glass pan. If using a metal pan, let the cake cool, then transfer it in to a glass or plastic container and it will keep, covered, for up to 1 week in the refrigerator.

** Try with peach or apple pie fillings.

*** Try with less butter (~1 stick or less), if desired.
The Wedding Party


The wedding ceremony in New Jersey (above photos), followed by a banquet in Maryland (below).

Family Photo

Marquis with Abigail

Eric's Lockheed Posse


Reading Chinese Horoscopes is always fun and interesting. Very often, their uncanny accuracy is stunning.

The following describes Abby's personality to a tee!

THE FIRE PIG 1947 AND 2007
Active, outgoing and extroverted, Fire Pigs breathe new life into everything they do. These Pigs are vivid, motivated individuals who cannot be deterred from a goal once they have set it. They are emotional and passionate about their loved ones, their occupations and their objectives. They are bold and vivacious, unafraid to take risks despite the consequences. They make great bosses because they do work so hard and because they are so spirited. But don’t double-cross a Fire Pig. They have the ability to be quite abrasive when things don’t turn out as they planned.

Paul, Abigail, and I stumbled upon the Tulip Library this weekend when we were on our way to see the Cherry Blossoms. The colorful flowers had caught our attention as we were driving around, looking for parking around the Tidal Basin. Six years in D.C. and we had never heard of this garden. It was quite an enchanting sight!


Extracted from the National Mall and Memorial Parks Brochure:

The Tulip Library is a display garden showcasing nearly 100 varieties of tulips. A popular site for photographers and picnickers, the Library offers a splash of vibrant color amidst the hustle and bustle of downtown Washington, DC.

The Tulip Library, created in 1969, is located near the Tidal Basin at Independence Avenue and Maine Avenue. Each fall gardeners from the National Park Service prepare the floral beds for hand-plantiover 10,000 tulip bulbs flown in from Holland.
Since Abigail has been starting to cruise and daycare has been letting her practice walking, we have decided that she needed some pre-walker infant shoes. Ideally, we would like her to go barefoot. That is the recommended and most natural way for her to learn to walk, however, with her eczema so bad around her ankles, we need to try to keep socks on her to prevent her from scratching them until they're bloody.

I started looking into flexible-sole shoes and - more importantly - shoes that will stay on her active feet. I observed the walking babies at daycare to see which shoes seem to work the best. Talking to the teachers, we concluded that the Pedipeds were extremely soft, durable, impossibly cute, and stayed on the feet fairly well. The Robeez were great for staying on feet and were softer than even the Pedipeds, but were not nearly as durable.

After a few days of internet research, I decided that Abby should try on the Robeez, Pedipeds, and Stride Rite Pre-walkers. To my disappointment, the Pedipeds just didn't fit her well. It turns out that she has very narrow feet and the Pedipeds just fell right off when she dangled her feet - even with the 0-6 months size! They were definitely the cutest of them all. :(

None of the Robeez shoes appealed to me. They looked just like the Carter's baby shoes that Abby already has and which she kicks off almost quicker than we can put them on. Yet, people SWEAR they stay put.

Finally, at the Stride Rite store at the Lakeforest Mall, we looked at Stage 1 and Stage 2 pre-walkers. The Stage 2 shoes were for cruisers/walkers, which seemed appropriate for Abby, but I was not impressed by how hard the rubber soles were. The idea is that they protect the toes of little walkers, but to me the soles felt way too hard for a kid learning to walk, so I looked at the Stage 1 shoes. They are marketed for crawlers, but they felt right to me. They offered flexibility, plus rubber "pods" for traction. With their "Buy one pair, get the second pair half off sale," I ended up picking up two pairs of Stride Rites - size 3 Safari Oatmeal (left) and Pandora Pink/Gold (right).



The Robeez shoes that Stride Rite sold were REALLY ugly, but I still wanted to buy a pair for Abby to try, so we marched across the mall to the Children's Shoebox. There, we tried on 6-12 month shoes, but found them to be too large. The 0-6 month shoes fit very well and gave her about a centimeter of room to grow. Apparently, Abby has TINY feet for 9 months!! Hard to imagine considering how large they were compared to her newborn body. All the Robeez at the store for girls were blaring pink, except for a pair of purple ones, but the "fairy" design was kind of kooky. We ended up walking away with a pair of gender neutral "squirrel" slippers.

One of my mom's recipes. Absolutely delicious!!! However, as with all of my mom's recipes, there are almost no exact measurements for the ingredients. So, my advice is to experiment. This recipe is almost impossible to mess up. It will taste great no matter what you do with the ingredients.

Hot Water Dough:
3 C flour
1 C hot water
1/2 C cold water

Mix flour with hot water, then slowly add cold water until a soft dough forms. If too sticky, add more flour and gently mix it in. Place dough in lightly greased bowl. Cover and let rise for 20 minutes.

Scallion Pancakes:
Hot Water Dough
Chopped Scallions, the more the tastier
Salt
Vegetable Oil

Roll a palm size piece of dough into a flat circle. In listed order, evenly spread approx. 1 tablespoon of vegetable oil, then sprinkle approx. 1/4 teaspoon of salt, finally a palmful of chopped scallions on dough. Roll tightly into a long tube then create a spiral (like a cinnamon roll) with the tube; this creates the layers in the pancake. Roll spiral into a flat, 1/2-inch pancake.

Heat 1 tablespoon of vegetable oil in a flat pan. Fry pancake on each side until golden brown, approximately 3 minutes per side on medium-high heat.

Serve immediately.

Abigail went to the hospital in Bethesda today for her 9-month Well-Baby checkup. Luckily, she didn't have to get any immunization shots this time. This was the first Well-Baby checkup where Paul could not be there - he had to go to San Diego on a business trip, but he will be back this Friday.

The main topic of conversation dealt with Abigail's itchy eczema. After the doctor did her general physical exam and went through her checklist to make sure her developmental milestones have been met, we focused on her eczema.

Abby does not have "severe" eczema, but it is not "mild" either. The first thing the doctor recommended was that she visit an allergist. I have been asking Abigail's regular doctor to refer us to an allergist, but her regular doctor does not believe they are useful. I just want Abigail to feel better and I don't want to rule out anybody who MAY be able to help her in any way. Later this week, I am to make an appointment so that Abby can get a skin test (no needles, the doctor has assured us) for the most common allergens: milk, eggs, wheat, soy, tree nuts, etc.

We are also trying something new the dermatologists are now recommending for alleviating eczema discomfort - a method called "Wet and Seal." Rather than limiting baths to 2-3 times a week with a duration around 5 minutes or less so that the natural body oils are preserved and allowed to do their job, we are to do the exact OPPOSITE! We are going to try bathing her every day for around 30-40 minutes ("Until she's a prune," says the doc), then taking her out, quickly patting her semi-dry, lathering her up with Aquaphor, and wrapping her up in a snug pair of sleepers.

After Abigail sees the allergist and after we try her new bath regimen for a month, if we see no improvement to her skin, she needs to go back and see the pediatrician. Her next Well-Baby is at 12 months and, unfortunately, she will have to get her next round of immunization shots then.


Abigail's Stats at 9 Months
Weight: 18 lbs (40th percentile)
Length: 27.75 inches (60th percentile)
Head Circumference: 44 cm (50th percentile)


Overall, Abigail is doing great. Despite her eczema, she is a happy, healthy baby girl!



1/2 pound egg noodles
3/4 cup cottage cheese
2 eggs, separated
1/2 cup butter, melted
1/2 teaspoon salt
2 tablespoons sugar
1/2 sour cream
1/2 cup raisin
2 tablespoons butter, melted

Preheat oven to 350 degrees F.

Cook noodles according to package directions; drain. Combine noodles with cottage cheese. Beat egg yolks with 1/2 cup melted butter, salt and sugar. Combine egg yolk mixture, sour cream and raisins with noodle mixture. Turn into a greased 2-quart casserole. Pour 1/4 cup melted butter over surface. Bake for 45 minutes. Serve as a meat accompaniment or as a meatless main dish.

Yields 4 to 6 servings.
Picture Taken April 2, 2008

Abigail's daycare teacher found her asleep in this position earlier this week. She felt compelled to take this photo with her cell phone camera so she could share this image with us as it was just too darned cute!

Abby must have been REALLY tired that day.



It's really fascinating to me how babies learn about this great, big world. For all tangible objects: first, they see it, then they feel it, then they MUST taste it!